Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Pursuit of Happiness



We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness. These words were written by our founding fathers in the constitution in order to create a more fair and justice world for all of mankind. The intended purpose of this entry in this significant document was to ensure equality and provide individuals with the opportunity of achieving happiness. However, honoring this statement has been controversial when it comes to the legalization of same-sex marriages. I for one have changed my opinion on this subject and now believe that everyone should have the right to love and marry whoever they wish to.
Although Homosexuality is now more acceptable, many still remain against it. When I was younger I never really gave any thought to this issue. Maybe this was because I didn’t have much exposure to the gay community. Until one day I found out my cousin and my brother were gay. This was a complete shock to me. I must admit my first reaction was to cry, not of disappointment but of fear. I feared they would not be approved by my family and society. At that time a million of things crossed my mind, but the only thing I knew for sure was that I would love and support them no matter what. The only thing that I cared for was their happiness and well-being.
I’ve come to realize sexual preference is not a choice but something you’re inevitably born with. No one can help who they fall in love. Why deny someone the right to marry the person they love? We are all equal and therefore, should be given the same rights. The incredibly amazing gay people in my life have completely changed my view on same-sex marriage and have allowed me to become more open minded. I believe everyone should have the right to the pursuit of happiness. A person should not be defined by their sexuality, but rather by their character.

6 comments:

  1. I use to be uncomfortable with homosexuals when I was a young man. I too have relatives who are gay. I'm fine with it now. Im actually protective of them when I here any kind of bashing towards them. I was just ignorant and a little immature. My wife and I taught our children to always respect people regardless of their sexual preference. Cool essay.

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  2. Bold introduction Denny it caught my attention instantly. Your topic on homosexuality was good, but i can only agree to an extent. Good work though Denny.

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  3. Very good change of view on subject of homosexuality. Very original.

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  4. What an essay. Love it. You know my opinion on that. I love the way you write.

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  5. You really spoke out what you believe in and that’s pretty good and I respect what you believe in. Though I believe some things differently, I do agree that we should respect them. I have met very nice people who are gay and they’re pretty cool and talented.

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  6. I really enjoyed reading your essay the intro was very captivating. I too agree with people being able to be happy and marry who they love, despite the fact that they are same sex. I have friends who are gay and when they told finally told me I was glad to know they could confide in me and tell me the truth, our friendship is still the same I do not see them diferently. They are awesome people.

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